It seems like a long time scince I blogged. I think I am trying to transition over from multiply to blogger ,,but I feel a little lost. I think I will poke around n see if I can find my way around here more because I am starting to feel very lonley for friends n fun blogging. actually I have one friend already here..waving to rebecca :)
its been a busy two weeks. I had a court date for my sons guardianship change. I am no longer the guardian,,my ex was there and his name is george. my son georgeE is 19 and non verbal. he is autisitic. he lives in a group home. I am very grateful that the guardianship has changed to where it did because I trust the foundation n character of this guardian very much. I was pretty emotional at the end of things ,,I dont know? something about him being an adult already and just the mere fact I wished for his life to be so different. in the end my mother n I discussed how approporiate in the end how it all fell into place. I could of done fine without georges dad being there (my ex) his mental state is not exactly einstein material nor is he comon sence prone. I wasnt shocked for his wierd display of dramas.
but that chapter is done now n on tues it was actually GeorgeE's birthday. yes the big 19. so jessica my friend and the kids and I brought a cake over n cut it up n celebrated very quietly n short. school nite and all. I will post pics,,I have to get my 11 yr old son chris to help upload. from his iphone. my daughter jasmine age 5 and chris have been quite active! there really enjoying the summer weather. there counting down the days til the last of school. jasmines been having a campout week at school so she brought her little blanky n pillow and everyday they talk about what camping is like. today at school chris has career day,,a variety of firemen and emt's come to the school outside to demenonstrate what there job is like. n rebecca the kids have graduated to there own room. we have beautified there room and set the tv up n game systems in there,,n I even found a book shelf n put in the room for all there books. the story books u sent them are beautifully displayed mashallah.
atifrst I was the one struggling n feeling like there away from me but then I realized how nice it was to have my own room back. to beat the monsters n scary ghosts of night time dramas I set up there rotating jungle scene lamp n leave it on as a nite light. my husband has been wonderful about helping me with some light housework. everytime the kids pick up n him to,,I praise them. we got done with all the spring cleans now.
jani got the car registered and we are just so ready to start our adventures again. finally a new lease in freedoms...a car,, a new start.
no more hard walks to the grocery store n maybe even more trips to the beach. mothers day came n went. jani got me sunglasses n flip flops and chris ran to the dollor store n got me a cute ceramic egg that opens like a jewelry box and 4 new glass glasses,,I was touched and jasmine made me a beautiful painting n card. I definetly felt blessed. thats about it for now. I know it's alot but two weeks of being quiet does that to me lol.
now to get cozy here. multiply has become a ghost town. changes are always good though. I do believe.
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